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hello! my name's hime, and i'm 15. that's all.
by the way... if you ask why i unfollowed you, here's why:
- you were rude.
- you don't tag gore, horror, body horror, nsfw, etc. - you send people hate.
- you post creepshots.
- you're racist, misogynistic or just generally an asshole.
i sometimes follow back.
for you
hey~! good luck on exams, or anything you're nervous about!
please have a good life, and remember that you're awesome!
here is my tag for all of you: [xx]

my-caliginous-romance:

hey girls friendly reminder that if another girl is being mean to you, avoid calling her a bitch, slut, or whore, because it’s likely there will be dudebros nearby and if you say that they might think it’s ok to say that to other women.  Call her “motherfucking shithead” or “cranberry fucknut” or something that’s genderneutral.  If we wanna change we gotta start somewhere

The stereotype of the ugly, unfuckable feminist exists for a reason – because it’s still the last, best line of defence against any woman who is a little too loud, a little too political. Just tell her that if she goes on as she is, nobody will love her. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I’ve always believed that part of the point of feminist politics – part of the point of any sort of radical politics – is that some principles are more important than being universally adored, particularly by the sort of men who would prefer women to smile quietly and grow our hair out
What’s the worst possible thing you can call a woman? Don’t hold back, now.
You’re probably thinking of words like slut, whore, bitch, cunt (I told you not to hold back!), skank.
Okay, now, what are the worst things you can call a guy? Fag, girl, bitch, pussy. I’ve even heard the term “mangina.”
Notice anything? The worst thing you can call a girl is a girl. The worst thing you can call a guy is a girl. Being a woman is the ultimate insult. Now tell me that’s not royally fucked up.
― Jessica Valenti, Full Frontal Feminism: A Young Woman’s Guide to Why Feminism Matters (via smellslikegirlriot)
When a man says no in this culture, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation.
Gavin De Becker (via volatilebodies)